HAVING IT ALL
“To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:11
In the eighties and nineties our culture touted the notion that we could have it all: a picture-perfect family, a fast-track career, and personal health and fulfillment. Much literature was published on time management, with the assumption that it is possible to include in a 24-hour day all that is needed to function at 100% in every area of our lives.
Most people’s own lives are proof positive that we cannot have it all, at least not all at the same time. Studies conducted by the National Institute of Health and major universities on sleep deficits and stress-related illnesses demonstrate that many suffer, at some level as a result of “burning the candle at both ends”. In an effort to “have it all” we are wearing ourselves out.
The Bible speaks not of enjoying all good things in life at the same time, but of seasons of life: times for relaxation and work, for tending relationships and for solitude. And through all of these seasons, the Bible speaks of a God who is constantly with us, ready to help us with whatever season in life in which we find ourselves.
If you are like most people you are probably overscheduled and feeling overwhelmed, unable to give your ‘best’ to those commitments you have made. Recognizing our own limitations may seem discouraging, but it can actually provide a less stressful, more meaningful way of life. It is freeing to know that scripture says, “To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven,” and not that we must face it all of life’s challenges at once.
Are you still trying to “have it all” by cramming too much into your days? Are you neglecting your need for God, and the God-given wisdom that guides our choices?
Take some time this week to consider your priorities for this season of your life. What are your long-term goals, and what is your first priority right now? Those who have small children at home may need to consider putting career advancement second. Those whose children are older may want to take a season to reconnect with the husband or wife. And all of us need to spend time being nourished and guided by the God that loves us through all of life’s seasons.
God bless your week!
Jeff
